More is not the goal. Enough is, and it is yours to define.
I run a summer program and I still tell families they do not have to come. Sports should add to your family's life, not take from it. The most resilient kids I coach are the ones who get a real break.
Grow or die. The orthodoxy every owner hears. I got out from under it when I asked what is enough, for me, my team, my family. Nobody else will set that number for you. The travel team won't. The board won't.